Monday, February 09, 2009

Keeping it Magical


While it is great to be domestic with your partner, and build and start a family, the everyday tasks can become very mundane. To keep a relationship working, you have to keep it Magical. Intimacy, Sex, and Romance are all very important. There are differences between them all, so let me break it down for you.

Intimacy.
To me Intimacy is the small physical connections you use to match the feelings you have for the person. Those soft kisses during the day, the holding of the hands in the movies, that back rub after a long day. Feeding them a piece of fruit, Given a smile at there joke, or just rubbing there head to relax them. It is the small things that say, "I still care about you."

Sex.
To me there are two different versions of sex, and it is always good to experience both of them. First you have to have that passionate animalistic sex!  Choke them, bang there back out, let them dig up in your hole while your leg is up against the wall sex! Make sure they call you dirty nasty names, and curse your azz out to. Trust me its healthy! Scream loud to, they like that, and make sure there aren't any covers, sheets or pillows on the bed when your done! Then there is that emotional, look deep into my eyes as they hit my spot three times sex! That sex where you make a noise you never made before as you think about this man you truly are in love with. That sex that makes you cry, and you don't know why, but you smile as he is crying to. Yes, that's the sex you need to have!

Romance.
Now Romance is interesting. Romance is all about creating those special kind of moments that will last you a lifetime. It is those times when he will surprise you with a brand new car when you just sold it to pay for rent. It is those times where you take him out to dinner, and he finds a ring in his champagne. It is those moments where you haven't seen each other in days, and he shows up in your apartment with the room filled with roses. That's the kind of romance you should be having.

These are all the things that keep relationships MAGICAL even when your being DOMESTIC.


WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON INTIMATE THING YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU HAD BANGING SEX? OR MADE LOVE? WHAT WAS THE MOST ROMANTIC THING SOMEBODY HAS DONE FOR YOU?


8 comments:

Mr. Jones said...

First you have to have that passionate animalistic sex! Choke them, bang there back out, let them dig up in your hole while your leg is up against the wall sex! Make sure they call your dirty nasty names, and curse your azz out to.

CO-SIGNS!!!

WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON INTIMATE THING YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU HAD BANGING SEX? OR MADE LOVE? WHAT WAS THE MOST ROMANTIC THING SOMEBODY HAS DONE FOR YOU?

I can't live without kissing. I LOVE to kiss a good kisser.

I had some decent sex last night.

I last made love in November.

I tend to fuck up romantic things by never seeing them as romantic. I'm not sure of the most romantic thing someone has done. I'll have to think about it.

Promiscuous X said...

SHAWN .....WHAT IN THE MAGICAL HELL LMAO...

If you coulda seen my face reading that Sex paragraph...I was a lil taken back ..Ahem!!!

Last time I had Bangn sex....sigh (no comment)

Common intimate thing I cant live without? I need for someone to say I love you just becuz lol. I know its cheesey lol


Most romantic thing someone has done for me?.....hmmmmm sent me videomail confessing there love for me...I was in awwwww the entire time.

Good Post

deonte' k said...

O my Shawn lol...

I can't live without my kiss in a relationship..... i made love on Friday lol... I think a lot of things are romantic, so I couldn't answer that right at the moment lol.

jerzey_reality said...

awwww....how cute...que lindo... ::rolls eyes:: anyway lol

the most common intimate thing huh...hmmm...well i would have to say affection in all forms...from kissin, to jus holdin each other while watchin tv, lookin in that persons eyes and seein n them wut they see n u, or that deep conversation where nothin else matter but wuts goin on between u and the other person...its great when the actions coorespond wit the words

last time i had bangin sex or made luv....wait lemme get my calender and ill get back to u lol

most romantic thing someone has done for me...thas a tough one but i would have to say hearing them say how they truly felt about me n different ways

bLaQ~n~MiLD said...

I don't know about ya'll but I want to hear more about this car situation cause CLEARLY I've been pretty romantic to myself! LoL.

~Damnit!

Darius T. Williams said...

You know -you remind me of SUCH a woman...in a good way. I love your tenacity for great romance and really good relationships - you inspire me.

I've recently met a dude - and OMFG has he COMPLETELY blown me away. I haven't really bllogged about it - but you and I need to talk about it.

The Antonym said...

Man... this post got me thinkin cause I'm a hopeless sappy romantic myself. Love the little things. I was wooed and romanced on Saturday (dinner, massage and all) which ended with a night of love-makin. mmmmm I don't know how ol' boy is gonna top that night on Valentine's day...

fuzzy said...

Being held would definately be the most enjoyed intimate thing to me. Its simple, and it makes me feel warm and safe, not to mention cared for.

The last time I had bangin sex, was prolly about 3-4weeks ago. Yes it was memorable. Yea it'll prolly happen again! lol

The last memorable time I made love would have been in december of 2007. I say Memorable because it stands out in my mind as the best love making Ive ever had... (sorry)