While it is great to be domestic with your partner, and build and start a family, the everyday tasks can become very mundane. To keep a relationship working, you have to keep it Magical. Intimacy, Sex, and Romance are all very important. There are differences between them all, so let me break it down for you.
To me Intimacy is the small physical connections you use to match the feelings you have for the person. Those soft kisses during the day, the holding of the hands in the movies, that back rub after a long day. Feeding them a piece of fruit, Given a smile at there joke, or just rubbing there head to relax them. It is the small things that say, "I still care about you."
To me there are two different versions of sex, and it is always good to experience both of them. First you have to have that passionate animalistic sex! Choke them, bang there back out, let them dig up in your hole while your leg is up against the wall sex! Make sure they call you dirty nasty names, and curse your azz out to. Trust me its healthy! Scream loud to, they like that, and make sure there aren't any covers, sheets or pillows on the bed when your done! Then there is that emotional, look deep into my eyes as they hit my spot three times sex! That sex where you make a noise you never made before as you think about this man you truly are in love with. That sex that makes you cry, and you don't know why, but you smile as he is crying to. Yes, that's the sex you need to have!
Now Romance is interesting. Romance is all about creating those special kind of moments that will last you a lifetime. It is those times when he will surprise you with a brand new car when you just sold it to pay for rent. It is those times where you take him out to dinner, and he finds a ring in his champagne. It is those moments where you haven't seen each other in days, and he shows up in your apartment with the room filled with roses. That's the kind of romance you should be having.
These are all the things that keep relationships MAGICAL even when your being DOMESTIC.
WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON INTIMATE THING YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU HAD BANGING SEX? OR MADE LOVE? WHAT WAS THE MOST ROMANTIC THING SOMEBODY HAS DONE FOR YOU?