So I was talking to one of my friends about a potential guy that was interested in him. He is very good looking, tall, intelligent, funny, great job, apartment, car and a good heart.
"I'm Just not feeling him."
"He doesn't have that swagger I like?"
So I was wondering? What is "swagger", how do you get it, and is it important to have if you want to attract someone? The dictionary says that swagger is: To walk or conduct oneself with an insolent or arrogant air; strut. To brag, or boast. To me it seemed like confidence, and the guy sure had that. But my friend stated that it was something more.
Swagger is more hood, that "don't give a shit" attitude. That sex appeal, that overwhelming masculine aura that surrounds you. It's the "what's good" or that "let me holla son" It's the thing in a man that makes him even more attractive.
Does swagger only equate to "thug appeal"?
Then I was thinking that maybe my friend wasn't attracted to him because he had some small female tendencies (you know like most gay men). Yet don't females have a certain sense of swagger as well? Could this guy not have a professional swagger? or a intelligent swagger? or a gay swagger?
So let me ask you guys these questions?
1. Is swagger something you have
or something you do?
2. Does swagger only equate
3. Is there a different between
confidence and swagger?