Wednesday, February 21, 2007


Spring is coming, and you finally snagged you a cutie from the winter. It's only been a couple of months, maybe even a couple of weeks. For some of you Homos, you finally met dude in person from BGC! But Hey... you is feeling the shit out of this man! The First kiss was magical, the sex can't get more explosive, and you really want to make this last! ONE PROBLEM! For some cosmic reason, we all think that gay relationships don't last. You be lucky if you make it 3 months! Being in a gay relationship for a year is like 5 years in a heterosexual marriage! Hey people, I don't make the rules... I just break them!

Fuzzy and I will be coming up on our One Year Anniversary next week!


Everyone should GET a MAN and KEEP a MAN!
Repeat after me...GET A MAN, KEEP A MAN!


Kissing is the most important part of a relationship. It is the first intimate interacting between two dudes. If you have a hang up over kissing, get over it. There is nothing like two passionate brothas locking lips! Hot! If you have luscious plump lips, you got an edge, but kissing isn't always physical. Kissing is very much a mind game. You prepare for that moment with the locking of eye, the touching of their body, and that soft sexy tone to your voice. You have to time it just right... and if you’re in the right setting and mode, RAINBOW FIREWORKS FOR EVERYONE, YEAH! But beware, if you bite, spit, cough, sneeze, give to much tongue, or have bad breath, take 6 months off your relationship. Yes it’s that serious!

Sex is good... hell, sex is great! It is invisible line between a lover and friend. Mixing that shit together only leads to confusion. It's cute to have a Fuckbuddy or friend with benefits when you’re in your early 20's, but as we get older, can we progress above that, THANKS! I'm not one for labels, but the bottom line is, somebody has to get fucked! Let me not be so harsh... making love involves two people who know who they are sexually, and they mesh well with one another. LOVE is compromising, and especially in the bed! Being Versatile is a relationship heaven, but most of us can't hit Cloud Nine like that, so... you have to bear the pain, to keep your man. Think of it as a sacrifice, Jesus did it for your sins! Don't we all want to be like Jesus!

There's nothing like saying I love you, like saying I'm Negative! Why be with someone for a year and not know their status? Finding out your positive after a couple of months, can bring and end to a relationship. If you find out your positive early on, he may still be willing to date you. Now that's love! This way, you can both be protective and ready when a hot moment arises! Being Negative Together will make your year a Positive one! And, don't forget that magnum, you guys have only been dating for a year, shit still can happen!

Let me put it to you this way. If you want to go to the museum and learn about Egyptian Art, and all he wants to do is sit on the coach and watch "I Love You New York." TELL HIM TO GROW UP! Your trying to enhance you man's lazy life, get it together! If you got some problems, and your man gives you some advice and tells you about yourself... GROW UP! Listen to what he has to say! Most important, grow up together. Go to church; learn about positive affirmations, read a spiritual book. Bake a cake, go to the gym, and take a trip to Jamaica. Through these experiences you learn and grow, not just for you, but him as well. Life is not all about eating and fucking... there is a whole world out there! Every relationship is all about how you can grow as a person, if your not UPGRADING, neither will you two together.

and finally...

“When we laugh, natural killer cells which destroy tumors and viruses increase, along with Gamma-interferon (a disease-fighting protein), T-cells (important for our immune system) and B-cells (which make disease-fighting antibodies). As well as lowering blood pressure, laughter increases oxygen in the blood, which also encourages healing.” "Science of Laughter” Discovery Health Website

If you laugh with your man, you both will live a year longer to be with each other. With all the stresses of the world, you need someone that can laugh with you the mishaps of life. When having sex, its great to be romantic & passionate, but also make it fun! Role-play, play cops & robbers, be the toilet repairman ready to plunge something, or what ever kinky mess you gays get into. Make silly faces, throw food at each other, do the Beyonce Booty Bounce, do anything to keep you guys entertained and laughing all night! Nobody wants to be with a boring brotha. You and your man go ahead and streak naked in the street that will make the relationship last, and give the gays something to talk about!

Sunday, February 18, 2007

bowling night!

Friday Night, to get some excitement in my life,
we all decided to go bowling!

Cool Slideshows

This is me trying to Bowl! I don't know why they caught the worst frame on camera, but what you going to do!

This is Fuzzy trying to Bowl, He's really not that bad, he actually got over a 100 in the last game, but this was him when we first started! So Funny!


Friday, February 16, 2007

looking for excitement

For the past week, I have been feeling like I need some excitement in my life!

Then I was wondering why do I feel this way? My life is far from boring. I have an amazing boyfriend, great friends, & a good & stable life. What is there to complain about? Well... I'm not complaining. I wouldn't want it any other way. But I think within all of us, there is this little part of us that wants to do or feel something out of the ordinary.

I really think its the winter! I think all this snow and cold has really got my body all bundled up all the time. I'm always wrapped up, and there is no way for me to let go and be free! A trip to an island would really get me going! Wow, just the thought of it...


Buying this new computer has really set back my expenses. I have been earning some money thanks to Trent Jackson giving me the oppurtunity to design his Book Advertisements for his new book "Full Circle." He's a great friend, great to work with, and pays well and on time! He really appreciates and understands the time and quality I put into my work. That makes me feel really good! Jared has also been working with me to get a new design gig, so I'm happy about that. All that to say...

I still don't have the money to go to an ISLAND!

So then what do you do here, in good ol' Jersey to bring some EXCITEMENT IN MY LIFE!

The thing about excitement is, you can only replicate an experience so many times until it becomes boring or not as exciting as it used to be. I love listening to music, and dancing, but I can only experience that so many times. I would get so excited when SEXYBACK would blast through my speakers... now I'm like, whatever!

I feel for some reason that this experience has to be thrusted on me, like it has to be unexpected. I don't know... I'm just talking out of my head.

What do you think? Anything exciting happen in ur life?

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

no valentine?

This will make you laugh!

Monday, February 12, 2007

Monday, February 05, 2007

another excuse for a party!

It's never a dull moment at the QT House!

So I had a Super Bowl Party.
I don't even like Football.
Always have to find an excuse to have a party.
I didn't host though... which was liberating.
It was D's idea, so D should host, Right?

D is the funniest kat I know...
A-Roo! [inside joke]
He has a really gushy booty.
Not as gushy as my Fuzzy,
but stil gushy none the less.

Booty is a theme in my house.
Booty and liquor.
I don't even drink.
Yet I do like Booty.

Fuzzy finally got a hold of the alleged video.
Yes... the video.
A wall.
Pants down.
Booties out!
We lost a bet, what can I say?
I'm a bad spades player.

Omar was drunk.
Omar was reallllllyyy drunk.
Yet even still, he maintained himself.

Fuzzy had on Fuzzy slippers.
He feels so at home at my house.
That makes me happy.
He didn't watch football.
I kissed him from time to time.

Why do people have to be...
So Camera Shy?
Huge Lushs?
Such Cunts?
Hey, got to take the good with the bad.

We had Pizza,
Chicken Wraps,
and Potatoe Salad,
and people still wanted
the Fried Chicken.
Black Folks.

Fuzzy is not a "made to order" Chef!
You eat what he gives you.
If not, Applebees is right down the street.

At any moment,
I always feel that these parties
could turn into a sex party,
but contrary to popular belief,
they never do.

Someone did have there pants down,
There was Belly Button Licking,
A little Ball sniffing,
Some Lube in Hair,
Humping on Vegetables,
Money given for Sex,
A Drag Queen named Princess,
and a Porn Star from Dogpound.
and yes, we did watch Football.

It's never a dull moment at the QT House!

Thursday, February 01, 2007

praying for brandy

LOS ANGELES - The parents of a woman killed in a freeway crash involving Brandy sued the actress-singer for $50 million Tuesday. The wrongful-death suit claims Brandy was driving recklessly when her Land Rover struck the back of a Honda driven by Awatef Aboudihaj, 38, "The Insider" first reported.

"The accident was a terrible tragedy, and Brandy's heart goes out to Awatef Aboudihaj's family," spokesman Allan Mayer said in a statement. "But for legal reasons we cannot comment on this lawsuit."

The suit was filed on behalf of Aboudihaj Ahmed and Labridi Zohra in Los Angeles Superior Court.

It comes a day after the California Highway Patrol recommended Brandy be charged with misdemeanor vehicular manslaughter in the Dec. 30 accident. The city attorney's office is reviewing the case.

Brandy, whose real name is Brandy Norwood, has publicly expressed condolences to the victim's family.

Brandy, 27, was driving on Dec. 30 when traffic slowed and her vehicle hit Aboudihaj's, a CHP report said.

Aboudihaj's car hit another vehicle, slid sideways into the center divider and was then hit by another car, the report said. Aboudihaj, a Los Angeles waitress, died at a hospital from blunt-force injuries, according to the coroner's office.

Brandy, who earned a Grammy in 1999, has made five albums. She began her recording career at 14 and acted for film and television, starring on the sitcom "Moesha" from 1996-2001 and most recently as a judge for NBC's "America's Got Talent.